
Although many people are
critical of masturbation on moral or religious
grounds, this solitary sexual practice is surprisingly beneficial for
men and women alike. There is no question that people denied other
types of sexual relief are perfectly willing to engage in masturbation
just to get rid of the tension. But this is not the only good side of
masturbation.
Many experts on mental issues say that masturbation is a good way of
relieving depression by allowing the individual to reach a higher sense
of self-worth. A successful orgasm is one of the best ways to lift
somebody's spirits and make that person feel the zest for life that
lies in all of us. Sex also tends to drive out negative thoughts, if
only for a while.
Still, whatever arguments some people may have against masturbation, it
is better to engage in this practice than to allow depression to set
in. In certain cases, two persons who may be perfectly matched in
interests and preferences, may prove to have very different views on
sex. When one of the partners wants a lot of sex, but the other does
not, masturbation may be used to satisfy the bigger need without making
the less eager partner uncomfortable.
This helps to balance the relationship and unite couples who are
sufficiently open-minded to acknowledge and respect their differences.
Moreover, frequent masturbation teaches a person to understand its own
sexual responses and is a perfect way of exploring one's sexuality.
Every bit of experience helps later on and masturbation can be a very
good teacher to young and shy people who are nervous about one of the
most intimate acts two people can do together.
It's perfectly safe at all ages and, unlike sex, it does not carry the
risk of unwanted pregnancies or painful visits to the VD ward. A recent
study has also suggested that frequent masturbation in men may help
decrease the risk of developing prostate cancer.
While this is not certain, there's a good chance this may prove true.
Of course, nobody recommends masturbating in order to prevent cancer,
but men who engage frequently in this practice should not feel as if
they're doing something wrong because their activity may even help them
in their old age.