
Try as I might, I can't
remember having met anybody in my life who was
satisfied with his or her sex life and didn't want to change anything.
And it's not that sex was bad or anything. People simply want a lot of
variation in their sex lives; they are always searching for the elusive
"something else".
That's how they get to enacting fantasies, using toys and other props,
looking for new sex partners, trying different moods and locations, Or
using alcohol and drugs to spice things up. Judging from the fast lives
people have today and from their interest in being entertained all the
time, I'd say there's a lot of spice going around.
The top problem with drugs is that different people respond in
different ways. This means there's no guarantee as to the effects, much
less when moods can also interfere with drugs. The second biggest
problem is that drugs interfere with the flow of blood, motivation or
arousal response. Let's take a look at the most common drugs and their
effects on love-making.
LSD, mescaline, psilocybin (magic mushrooms) and all the other
psychedelic substances should really be left only to artists and
adventurer types. The effects are much too unpredictable to be of any
consistent use. While it's true that these psychoactive substances make
people much more aware of each other, they are also very unlikely to
promote sexual arousal.
Bad hallucinations and moods could turn sex into a traumatic trip best
left outside your range of experiences. Stimulants come next. Cocaine
and amphetamines are stimulants of the nervous system and people take
them to feel the cool rush to the brain. But they don't always mix well
with sex. Both cocaine and amphetamines are known to cause problems
with achieving erections and orgasms.
While making orgasm more difficult is a recipe for longer sex, this
could also lead to chaffing of the intimate parts, something which is
highly NOT recommended. The same goes for opiates. Drugs like opium,
codeine, morphine and heroin are well-known for decreasing the libido
and making erections more difficult. And it's only fair, if I may say
so.
The 30 seconds of pleasure given by sex are a poor match to the four or
eight hours of euphoria and tranquillity generated by opiates. People
who use opiates tend to experience solitary pleasures and do not feel
the need to share that is crucial for sex. On the other hand, the
self-contained sense of peace given by heroin is not the same as the
shared moments of peace that bind a couple.
Ecstasy is yet another risky choice. Although MDMA makes people like
each other, it is not recommended for sex. MDMA is more of an empathy
drug that opens people up and makes them comfortable with themselves
and friendly to others. Just like some of the above-mentioned
substances, MDMA interferes with the sympathetic nervous system and
impairs erections.
Some Ecstasy users seek to offset this effect by taking Viagra at the
same time as Ecstasy, which is not a good idea. Arguably, the most
important effect of all drugs is the obliteration of inhibitions and
self-consciousness, which allows partners to enjoy sex more and to act
out all repressed fantasies. However, the loss of inhibitions is also
the reason why users of recreational drugs have unprotected sex with
perfect strangers who don't always mean well.
Having a blast in bed is a great experience. Waking up with various
STDs, without the wallet and keys and at a completely unknown location
next to a completely unknown person who doesn't look as good as she/he
did last night, is not. In the end, the choice is yours. If you want to
take a chance and risk your health and life, a simple article isn't
going to stop you.
Still, for your sake try to pause and think before taking any
unnecessary risks. Have fun, but stay safe.