
And here we are at the final
part of the guide to the female erogenous
zones. This is where you will learn the different stimulation
techniques that drive women wild. Let's face it: any accomplished lover
has to master these techniques in order to earn the respect and love of
women and the envy of less skilled men.
The study of erogenous zones teaches the good student what works and
why and enables him to make techniques up on the fly, as the situation
requires. The biggest problem with sex is that men assume that women
like the same things that they do. Men love to have their penises
touched, fondled and sucked any time, provided a five seconds notice is
given.
Women, on the other hand, don't like to have their genitals touched
just like that. They are not ready for action at all times and do not
appreciate it when men get right into the thick of it without bothering
to get the lady aroused. This is not good manners, if you know what I
mean. So the basic idea is to get the woman into the mood by
stimulating all the sensitive spots that we have discussed before.
After the customary wining and dining, or whatever your approach is,
enter the foreplay mode. I know that some guys find foreplay boring and
think that driving her home should be considered part of it. But this
is the exact point where they miss all the fun. Foreplay is about
exploration and pleasure. Lying on the couch in the same position for
10 minutes and kissing is bad foreplay.
Asking the lady if she would teach you how to please her by
masturbating in front of you is hot foreplay. The only thing that you
cannot learn from articles and books is how to judge the individual
situations. This you will have to learn yourself. Women like to be
kissed all over, but you shouldn't make it look like a chore.
Women like to see they're able to drive men crazy, but don't be
obsessed only by her body. It will insult her intelligence. If
something you do is not working, change it. Don't spend a minute
kissing a spot that the woman doesn't care about. And if she tells you
to stop in a serious voice, don't assume that she's joking. Stop
whatever it is you're doing and talk to her.
Always read the body signs. The only things you can do to any erogenous
zone are to kiss it, lick it or caress it. Her body will tell you if
she likes what you're doing and how you're doing it. She'll try to
guide you toward getting the best stimulation possible, but she won't
use words every time. Pay attention to her movements.
Maybe that squirming is not pleasure but an attempt to get a better
position or to change your angle of approach. Learn all you can from
these articles and then go and experiment everything. Be firm, but not
pushy, be in control, but not domineering, be attentive, but not
bookish and be gentle, but not a pushover. And don't forget to enjoy
yourself while giving her a lot of pleasure. Otherwise it has no use,
has it?